How to Play a Murder Mystery Party Game: Tips and Tricks for First-Time Guests

So, you’ve been invited to your first murder mystery party and are wondering, “How do I play?” As a first-time guest, playing a murder mystery can be exciting and a little nerve-wracking, but it’s all about having fun! In this blog post, we’ll share some helpful tips and tricks to guide you through the experience and ensure you enjoy the game to its fullest.

A group of friends dressed in space western costumes with glowing glasses and cowboy hats, playing the WANDERSTAR murder mystery game.

Playing a murder mystery game is a great way to make new friends!

1. Understand the Scenario and Your Character

Before you arrive, read up on the party’s scenario and the character you’ll be playing. Understanding the setting and the key events leading up to the murder will give you context. Your character’s background will provide valuable clues for interacting with others, so get familiar with it! You will also be able to keep your character profiles with you throughout the game so don’t worry about having to memorize it all. 

Group of people in costumes gathered around a person lying on the floor, play-acting a dramatic murder mystery reveal at a party.

Pay close attention to the evidence in your murder mystery whodunnit!

2. Dress the Part

One of the most fun aspects of a murder mystery party is dressing up as your character! Costumes help you get into the role and enhance the overall experience. When planning your outfit, think about your character's background—are they glamorous, mysterious, or quirky? You don’t need to buy a fancy costume; you can get creative by using items from your closet or adding simple accessories that fit the theme. There is usually a Best Costume award at the end of the party too!

Check out our Pinterest Board for inspiration and ideas!

3. You Don’t Need to Be an Actor

While role-playing is a fun part of the game, you don’t need to be a professional actor to enjoy a murder mystery party. Just focus on playing your character to the best of your ability, even if that just means following the story and asking questions. Relax, and don’t stress about being perfect—everyone’s there to have fun.

4. Rules May Vary

Every murder mystery game has its own set of rules and structure, so be sure to listen to any instructions given at the start of the party. If you’re unclear about something, don’t hesitate to ask the host for clarification. It’s better to ask early than miss out on important parts of the game!

Murder mystery rules and instructions on a steampunk decorated table

Your character profile is a great starting point!

5. Pay Attention to Clues

From the moment the game begins, clues will be sprinkled throughout the event. Listen carefully during the opening toast, pay attention to the evidence presented, and examine any exhibits or props in the game. Small details—like names, handwriting, or locations—can become key pieces of the puzzle. Take notes on anything that stands out, even if it seems unimportant at first.

6. Observe Other Players

The interactions between characters can reveal a lot! Watch how the other players behave, how they interact, and what they say. Look out for inconsistencies in their stories or any nervousness when answering questions. Their body language and who they choose to talk to might give you more insight into their motives.

Two characters in a murder mystery party playfully arresting a suspect

Sometimes your biggest clues are with the other suspects!

7. Ask Questions

A murder mystery thrives on interaction, so ask lots of questions. Engage with other players to gather information, encourage them to reveal details, and dig into their relationships with the victim. You can start by asking, “How did you know the victim?” or “Who do you think might have done it?” The more you ask, the more clues you’ll uncover.

Two women roleplaying at a murder mystery party—one in a long coat holding a tray, the other in a vest and hat, mid-conversation in character.

Ask questions, piece together the clues, and examine the evidence!

8. Embrace Your Character

The more you get into character, the more fun you’ll have! Whether you're playing a detective or suspect, don’t be afraid to lean into your role. Speak and act like your character, even if it feels a little silly—it adds to the overall atmosphere and helps everyone stay immersed in the story.

9. It’s Okay Not to Know Everything

As a first-time guest, you won’t know every detail or how everything works, and that’s totally fine. The game is designed for discovery as you go. You’ll pick up clues and information during the event, so there’s no need to worry about solving the mystery right away. Focus on enjoying the experience and interacting with others.

10. Have Fun!

Most importantly, remember to enjoy yourself! Solving the mystery is exciting, but don’t worry if you don’t get it right the first time. The fun lies in the challenge, the characters, and the interactions with other guests. So embrace the chaos, dive into your role, and make the most of the experience.

With these tips and tricks, you’ll be ready to navigate any murder mystery party like a pro. Good luck, and happy sleuthing!

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